Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Train rides...

i think this was a tulip field or something.... very flat, of course... :) theres always a tree-lined road somewhere near or in the distance (do you see the dots in the back?), very dutch too.... when in the train from amsterdam to utrecht (or groningen to utrecht), you speed through many green pastures. some with cows, others with sheep... some empty. i like staring out of the window, letting it all pass by. yesterday morning everything was covered in a layer of fog, and it was just so beautiful! for a moment i truly enjoyed the trip and didnt mind i was up so early....
in the afternoon the train was a little crowded, so when i finally found a seat, it was taken by a backpack. the girl in the seat next to the bag ignored my "sorry" (in american it would be "excuse me", of course). then she ignored some other noise i produced to make clear i wanted that seat ( i think the noise really made clear that she better remove the bag that instant, but she didnt even look up!) then, a bit louder (it felt like i was screaming but i probably wasnt), i asked (actually demanded) to sit there... she looked really pissed off and very slowly removed her bag, but continued to take more space than necessary. in the meantime someone else had removed his bag too, but by then the only seat i wanted was the one she refused to give up for as long as possible.
instances like that really make me dislike people. the entire train ride i was furious and she probably wasnt even aware that her behavior was ridiculous. i wonder whether at such moments it would be good if people could read my thoughts....? most likely not, during my commutes i have a lot (and i mean a LOT) of bad thoughts about the people around me... just like they have about me.... maybe?

5 comments:

Jack said...

Oh, please don't let anyone read my thoughts! I would also have been annoyed with that girl, and I would have gotten her bag off the seat even faster and more rudely.

Andy said...

I like the photo but you need to work on your negative thoughts. They are such a waste and do more harm to you than others.

biebkriebels said...

That is so stupid to have your bag next to you in a crowded train. So many people do. It is a seat, not a bagage place. I should have picked the bag up and put it on the ground. I refuse to beg for a seat, it is your right to sit as well. Nice picture anyway. Keep looking outside:)

Tim said...

maybe the girl follows your blog. in that case I'd like her to know she's a complete DOUCHE

Kay said...

Let yourself get pissed, but don't hold onto it. That kind of thinking takes a toll on your health over time and it's not worth it.